Climax

Men sometimes wonder why women hold on to men who are no good for them or no good in general...

Here's my take on the idiocy of even the most intelligent women:

Women love to climax.

Once you spark that feeling and it starts building....pulling out before we reach our destination is a cruel, wicked, evil thing to do.

What does that have to do with us staying emotionally glued to a dude who is incapable of giving us what we need?
At some point along the journey, Old Boy showed us (or tricked us into thinking) he had what it takes to get us to our emotional destination.
At some point of the journey, second date, twenty fifth conversation, 21st question...
He had us thinking he had the tools it took to take the ride we could give him.
So when this same passionate stallion ends up being a one trick pony it takes a lot for us to forget the image he had at some point painted for us.
Which is the real him? Is he really that horrible or is he just being lazy?
Did we do something that changed the game? Did his ADD kick in?

Just like during sex, men seem to be easily distracted. I say this because a man can start envisioning unsexy things in order to try to make the ride last longer.
A Woman? (Especially the passionate ones like me...) We're focused on the ride. We're focused on the movements and the connections and the steam and the pressure that's going to get us up that mountain to the peak we all seek.

And there again we can relate this scenario to our opposite sexes as we take our natural instincts and nurture each relationship (good or bad) trying to make it last and take us to that peak. So all these questions must be answered before we can finally let go.

At the very least during sex or during a relationship we need to feel that both parties gave it all they got. If it didn't work after that, if the chemistry is off, if the connection isn't there...no love lost.
But being with a lazy lover? An emotionally stunted partner?
It's the worst kind of torture.
And that need to climax makes us try everything to get him up that hill, past his premature ejaculations, over his fear of commitments, and into that climactic moment.

But what do I know...